There is always a lot of negative challenging stories that mums tell about their children and i know i am guilty of doing that too. I was looking at other mum blogs today and realize that yes they do it too , so i thought what about the positives….the reason behind why we have kids !!!
I have wanted kids since i was young and growing up i found a passion to work with children so i was super keen to start creating my own little family as soon as we could. We tried for 10 months with my first, 1 month with my second and with my third unfortunately it took another 4 years with 2 miscarriages between that time before we conceived with our third.
I remembered all 3 times i found out i was pregnant, the excitement that you feel and the whole joy that soon you are going to be a mum and not once did i ever think, “I am not going to be a good mum”. Most of my tears are always happy tears , happy that these beautiful monsters are my monsters.
All 3 of my children are all so different, difficult and challenging but well mannered, polite, caring and god damn gorgeous.
I think sometimes we lose focus on the positives that our children achieve and focus more on the negative, and what we can do to fix the negatives. so i thought i would share some of the positive things my children do that make me a proud and happy mum.
My son always puts others before himself.
Yes he struggles with school, but OMG that kid can make a paper plane like you would never believe.
He could get you through a night in the bush as he is very switched on when it comes to being street smart.
My oldest daughter is a beautiful dancer and when she dances and she smiles my whole world lights up.
She always helps me with my youngest and sometimes i don’t even think she knows that.
My youngest daughter well she is in her own league ….. I have never meet a child that has so much personality if my whole life.
She is caring, loving and knows exactly what to do to make you smile.
There is so much more i could write about but i thought it might be nice to talk about the positives that my children achieve and how proud i am of the little individuals they are becoming. Yes we have a lot of negatives and there will be many more but my husband and i should be proud of creating these monsters our monsters and i would never change it for anything in the world !!!!