Tantrums, yelling, screaming, fighting, crying, agrueing mmmmmm…… What else happens just in the morning of my house as we get ready to start our day…. Oh no that’s about it…. There may be some forceful manners in there and sorry’s , but that my friends is a household of 3 kids well in mine house I may get lucky with once a week maybe twice a week of positive vibes throughout the house, and that is usually when hubby is home because there is no way in the world that would happen on a morning he would be there, and then I hear ” I don’t know why you struggle in the mornings and why you are always running late the kids never are like that when I’m here” (rub it in ).
I don’t know if it is just me but mornings suck !!!! I’m organised half the time and when the times I am super organised something stupid would happen …like my 2 year old would wee her pants ……it never goes to plan that is for sure!
I can’t complain I have a pretty awesome husband who is super supportive and just knows if I have one of those days…as I walk through the door with this look on my face as the kids have already started agrueing because they couldn’t tell me how their day was first…..he takes my things kisses my head and says, “I will take this you have a shower” (oh he is so lovely) …..so I have a shower …2 seconds later my toddlers in , another one comes in and the hubby all for a chat…..yay….there is just not enough time to discuss everything in the eyes of a child….if they tell you how there day was they then ask you about yours “it was ok” you say …then the questions come……what did you do, why was it ok, what did you eat, oh what’s for dinner, can you do homework with me , can you read with me, ……mum emme drew on my homework……..
So up goes the schedule board…… Yep a weekly whiteboard that tells everyone what they are doing, dinner and routines……yep ocd but it works …for now lol…..sometimes I feel my oldest 2 are harder than my toddler. My 8 years old turning into a 15 year old is way harder to negotiate with than my tatrum throwing 2 year old. I can negotiate with my toddler who is throwing herself on the floor in the middle of Woolworths because she doesn’t want to get into a trolley…try to negotiate with an 8 year old who is ask to do something like clean up after herself is a nightmare (sorry to scare those who have girls growing up). Everything is a hassle and an argument……I offically have Gray hairs from the moment she turned 8, but we will get through the next 10 years I may be completely rocking the silver hair look but I know that they are good kids and they all have their moments I just have to find a way around the craziness of it all lol.
Its moments like these that make it all better !!!!
So I leave you tonight with some blogs that have been floating in my head for a while as I will be back with my stories of fifty shades of being a mum… Next time some article pieces I have been reading and I will all let you know on my first week back at Uni full time …yep full time online student I’m sure I will have some fifty shade moments for you all.
I would like to also write a review for you on that raunchy movie that I named my blog about “fifty shades of Gray” . But I might ponder some more on that one I have some interesting feedback you all may like to hear ?!?!? Let me know if your interested 😘
Until then Goodnight fellow blog followers xox